You have to stop being so cringy with girls when it comes to texting. One day it's all great, it seems like you guys are hitting it off and it's all going good and then the next day, she's cold, distant, and barely responding and then you spend hours sleepless nights trying to figure what the hell is going on and getting mad at her for not giving you any attention. So today we're gonna show you exactly what you should avoid when you're texting a girl so you don't ruin your chances.
1. Good Morning And Good Night Text
These should be like sprinkles on ice cream, this should be scattered but you got the guy that would do this every single day, every morning, and every night - Good Morning Beautiful, Good Night Beautiful; not only is that cringe, it seems desperate and it's the ultimate nice card to play.
These texts only work if you guys already have some sort of sexual tension or flirting going on, but if you don't and you're trying to do it with these two nice texts, you ain't going nowhere.
2. Sending WYD Text
Texting her what are you doing is like the other ten dudes already asked her the same thing, this puts a lot of stress on her this is why she just ends up throwing the ball back and telling you - "Not much, what are you doing?"
You're not creating any excitement for her, so what's gonna happen is that you're gonna get a dry text from her and don't blame her, blame yourself because all you're doing is trying to get her to entertain you where it should be the other way around.
3. Sending Pics
No girl wants to see a picture of your body or of your dick, if you want to go rated-r without any sexual interaction kind of like step two, if there's none of that built up, she doesn't want to see it. Moreover, most of you don't even properly groom yourselves, you should thirst to trap them sometimes, but when you do so, you got to make sure you look like a Greek God before sending; you should better look ten out of ten. If you don't, avoid sending pictures.
4. Following Up When She Left You Delivered
Guys, if she left you delivered, this is the rule of thumb, you know there's gonna be some times where girls genuinely just get busy right and they leave you unread but if it happens more than three to four times, let it go, move on, this girl has zero interest of talking to you. But if you were the guy of her dreams, that girl would respond to you in seconds.
5. Asking Why She Doesn't Reply Back
This is probably the most simple move that we've seen a guy do and every guy does it's gonna bring back PTSD as well asking her why she doesn't respond back. Look, if a girl
ever leaves you delivered, there are great ways to follow up with her that don't seem pathetic.
For example, let's say you're texting her and for whatever reason, she leaves you delivered, let it go, let it rest for a day, doesn't panic, goes on social media, and maybe follow up with her there through an Instagram post. If she posts anything on her stories or on her post drop a comment and make sure it's something that doesn't show that you're salty that left you delivered, make it as if she didn't even leave you delivered, and as if you're starting fresh like dropping a nice comment or responding to her story whatever it is, this is a good way to follow up without seeming desperate.
That's basically it for today's tips and those are five texting mistakes every guy makes that are just cringe when they're talking to their crush. If you guys liked this post and found it informative don't forget to share and comment down below.
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