Today we're gonna be looking at a subject that everyone wants to know on how to talk to a girl whom you have a crush on. Be may be asking " What are some topics of conversation about what I can say to a girl? " Well for all of you guys we're going to do you one better, we're going to give you smooth topics to talk about with a girl whether you've just met her or maybe you've been talking for a little bit. These are the go-to things that you should go for, this is going to be kind of a brief summary of what's going to be covered in this thing which is called the approaching system.
There's going to be a longer answer and we're going to actually give you verbatim questions that you can ask more questions, things to talk about things that are going to be useful for you. What a conversation is, it should satisfy three things that are: It should be fun, You should get to know the other person, You should figure out whether it makes sense for you to continue a relationship.
1. Location
That is - where she's from, where she's currently living in, where she's visiting, etc., it's a location-based question; typically this is something like - " Hey where are you from, are you from the city? "
Those thing like that is a good example; start with that questions if you've just met this person because you don't really know where they're from or what they like to do but you do know that they are from somewhere and you can start with that right off the bet and you can if you've lived there you can talk about that if you haven't lived there, you can ask her about it. There are tons of things that you can do with starting from a location.
2. Hobbies
You should what to know what their interests are like, to learn what they like to do, you can ask " What were you up to this week, what are some hobbies that you have, what are some things that you'd like to do for fun? " Just figure out what she's got going for and tell her about some of your hobbies too.
Those are the things that you should talk about. You should like seeing if other people like to do those fun things as well and if they don't, you should be curious to learn more about what they like to do. For example, you talk to a girl and she likes spearfishing, you should be curious to learn more about that.
3. Gossip
As humans, we are adapted to gossip. Why do you think people still continue to look at the news even though it's utter trash half the time which is not gonna make you smarter but people really enjoy reading it because we have an insatiable need for gossip. So, if you have some mutual friends with this person, if you have something around there people love to gossip.
Don't say mean things or nasty things about other people but people just like to know what's going on with other people, we're very tribal and we like to know what's going on around us and what things are happening because we like to know what's going on in the tribe. Tribes don't really exist in the shape that they used to but we still like to know what's going on with the people that we interact with and if you don't have a mutual friend, another fun thing that you can do is to people watch maybe somebody's wearing a creative or interesting outfit that you can comment on or talk about not in a mean way but in a way where you're just like talking about that person.
Maybe somebody walks in like a cowboy hat on and you tell a story on that, something like that you can talk about that with them and it's really fun because it's kind of has this like us against the world type mentality with the girl that you're talking to. So, enjoy talking about some gossip stuff and again don't be mean with this but it's very engaging and as soon as you start talking about it, watch her eyes light up because a lot of people like talking about mutual friends and things that they have going on there so that's a great topic.
4. Dreams or Aspirations
What do they like to do in the future, what would they like to do in the future, what are some of their plans their goals, what are some things that really drive them for the future? This type of questions, in fact, it's probably one of the best subject to talk about.
We've saved it for last because it's probably the most difficult subject to have with a girl. In fact, if you've started talking about this and you're having a good conversation around it, you're probably going to be pretty connected to this person. So, not every person when you first start talking to them is going to be willing to talk about this; if you just started talking to a woman that you've met, at the park or whatever it is or if it's the first date, she might not be willing to talk about that with you just yet.
If you've been talking for a while, if you've built up a lot of rapport with this person, maybe there's something there you, have some shared interests already then absolutely, this is a great topic of conversation to talk about because what you want to know about a person usually is where they are right now and where they're heading to and if you are heading in the same direction as that person and you're in the same place right now that has a strong strong connection to have.
If you've established that during your conversation, you can bet that person is going to want to interact with you again or have some sort of relationship with you in the future. If it doesn't work out in terms of romantically, at least you guys can be friends.
And that's basically for today's post and those are the best four topics to talk about with a girl. If you guys like it and found it informative, don't forget to share and comment down below.
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