You've searched this and chances are she said no, you got rejected but don't worry. Today we're gonna show you five things that you should be doing immediately after you get rejected. Gracefully, you will look much cooler and will not feel like a loser.
1. Complain About It
The first thing you can do is moan and complain about it, this is the approach that most guys take where they'll just sit moan, and complain and talk about how life isn't fair and how dare she do this to you because she owned this to you and how could she say no to you you're a stud, that's actually good you should feel the pain.
You got to understand that rejection is a form of loss of something, we thought we had or we deserve, now it's okay to remind ourselves of this pain and of what we feel is not completely wrong. We should be wise enough, though, to realize that it's not entirely true. All in all, it's necessary to encourage ourselves to experience these feelings without retaining them. In this way, we can allow them to come and also let them go.
2. Make Her Regret It
Pain, it's a great motivator, and while this tip might seem a little bit childish, you should see this in a positive light. Find meaning in the pain and use it as motivation to become the best version of yourself; it could be for a million reasons if this girl rejected you.
However, for 90% of the time, it's usually something external and something you can control, maybe you were too nerdy, didn't have enough money, too short, too fat, too skinny, unstylish, ugly. Well, bump that girl instead of wallowing your sorrow because she chose the more popular, handsome, and good looking guy over you, do what you have to do to be better than that guy and make her regret it. The number one thing that you can do is to change your appearance to really make you look handsome by taking care of your skin.
3. Try Again
If a girl rejects you, try again, don't quit. For example, if your crush is a tough nut to crack, if she's hyper-focused on her work/career, she would somewhat reject you but if you want her like hell, keep your eyes on the prize and keep trying and be persistent. She might notice how persistent and confident you are. Who knows, this might lead her to start liking you and eventually fall in love with you.
4. You Need To Move On
Yeah, that previous example sounds great and like a fairy tale but that's one in a million and it has to be done with precision. If a girl has clearly told you that she's not interested, then move on, now, you may be asking - "How the hell do I move on? I'm obsessed with this girl!"
Do not linger doing anything boring in your room wallowing in a stagnant negative emotion by moving deliberately. Instead, go finish the paper you've been procrastinating on, or that work report, go to the gym, read a book on self-improvement. Purposeful movement clears the mind lest that will drown your mind.
5. Be Kind To Yourself
It's very easy to beat down on yourself once you're refused and start yelling to yourself all that's wrong with you, and why she's right and you don't deserve anything good in your life, that's an absolute lie. She probably just doesn't see the value in you yet and that's completely fine.
So, when you are rejected, remember to do at least one nice thing for yourself that you will not only enjoy but also show you that you are worth the effort and attention, trust yourself dude, there's someone out there for you, we promise you.
And that's basically it for today's tips and we hope you enjoyed it and those are five things that you should do once you get rejected and if you guys like this post and found it informative, don't forget to share and drop a comment down below.
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