That girl you've been eyeballing all night, and finally, you've actually noticed and looked back at you, now you don't know what to do, you're timid, you're afraid, you're covered in terror, you're looking away. What a rookie mistake! You ruined it and you threw it all away.
Of course, not every girl that looks at you means that she likes you but when she looks at you in a certain way, most of the time there's a clear sign that she likes you and within half a second, you can ruin it, you could throw it all away and just ruin your chances with this girl.
Today we're going to show you our exact steps that you need to take so with that girl does look at you. You're up, you know just what to do so that you can seal the deal and turn a tiny gaze into a girlfriend.
1. Lock Eyes With Her
You don't wanna do the mistake that 99.9% of guys do and that is immediately looking away because they're so shot instead you want to show interest and confidence by locking eyes with them for two to three seconds, one of them just gives her a smile, a nice grin and then just look away.
This lets her know that you noticed her, you think she's cute but you're no little boy that's gonna drool over her, busy and grown for that and that chase is gonna drive her wild because deep down she knows you're interested. Now, she knows you're not trying to act too cool for her or anything like that but she also knows and now she's dealing with the confident man, a man that probably has higher options, and that that's gonna drive her wild.
2. Don't Shy Away
You, since you've been praising this girl and you're having this pedestal, she has you so intimidated but just the thought of her gazing on you makes you shy. So, what do you do when that girl looks at you is you immediately look away, to make it seem as if you weren't staring and drooling over what you just did.
This sends her a loud message that you're a shy and insecure little boy and now she probably has zero interest in you, whatever slight interest she might have had, you just ruined it.
3. Don't Act Like The Cool Guy
This is another thing you don't want to do, you don't want to act like the cool guy. Most guys trying to act so cool as if she didn't even notice that girl looked at them. What happens is that in her mind, the message she's receiving is that you're completely uninterested.
In your mind, you're thinking that you're so cool that she's probably gonna be interested in gonna keep pursuing you. No, girls aren't meant to chase the guy and once they do that one little step, for example, gazing on you to kind of test out or set a feeler and you reject that, she ain't gonna try again because she feels like you are not interested now.
4. Set The Right Body Language
You want to make sure the body language is responsive to her to let her know that you're open to the contact, the nonverbal communication you both are having right now. So, make sure you're not blocking or creating any barriers between you and her; if you haven't already you want to make sure you turn your body towards her so she can see that you're somewhat interested.
It's also gonna make it easier to lock eyes and again you also want to open up your body, you want to make sure that you relax your facial muscles to make sure that you're not stressed or angry or that your arms are locked off.
Instead, keep your arms to your sides, hold a drink or keep your arms in front of you that way she knows that you're interested, if your body language is open and pointed towards her, it's gonna make it susceptible to continue creating some of that sexual tension.
5. You Should Be Ready For It
You better be ready, you better be looking like a prime organic, USDA certified piece of state, a whole snap, you never want to be caught in a situation where you look like a loser, where you look dirty, you want to ensure you're always on track, with this to the point that wherever situation you are at when she does stares at you.
You're gonna make that girl do a double-take, you want to know why because most guys aren't well-groomed or most guys aren't hygienic, look around most of them look like bums when you stand out, we promise you she's not gonna look once, she's gonna look twice and that's how you're ready.
6. You Have To Approach
Once you're at this final step a lot of men are good at nonverbal communication, they feel confident here but they never have the balls to actually approach and seal the deal. You've done enough nonverbal communication and now you have to crack the voice barrier and you have to be the man and lead.
You want to jump over there and go ahead and just say- Hi! Think about it, by starting this discussion by looking over at you once, she already did some of the heavy liftings. This is almost a sure bet for you guys, so you have to go and finish the last 10%.
You don't need some sort of corny pickup line or some sort of intricate line to get her to be interested in you. She's already interested in you that's what this post is all about, all you have to do is go up and say - Hi!
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