What's up! We have another banger today, and we're going to make sure you get out of the friend-zone today. A lot of guys fall into this trap, we call it the nice guy syndrome, and that's exactly what brings us to:-
1. Don't Be The Nice Guy
One of the main reasons why nearly everyone ends up in the friend zone is that person A gives everything and anything they want to person B. They give them a ride, listen to all their issues, help them out when they're in trouble, so person B has all the advantages of a relationship without being in a committed relationship, why would they want to take that extra step.
So don't be person A and give everything they want to your crush, because it'll turn them off and never really want to make you their boyfriend. It's too late for you, but chances are, that's what you're looking for, which means you need to take step two.
2. Renegotiate The Terms
So, take a step back and be less interested and it will never be attractive to be needy. Second, you want to show her that your time is valuable and you do that by spending your time with other people, other friends, making new friends of the same sex in particular, and posting it on social media so she can see it. Yes, this may seem a bit childish, but jealousy will always generate attraction regardless of age because people will value what they think they might lose.
Another thing to show that your time is worthwhile is to do them fewer favors, not do all that they have asked you to do. This sudden absence is going to make them miss you more and want you all of a sudden. And finally, flip on them with the script, get them to do your favors instead of you doing them for them. Believe it or not, the more favors she performs for you, the more she'll like you, and this is called the Benjamin Franklin effect.
When someone does a favor for you, psychologically, they like you more in their minds because they can't grasp the idea that they did a favor for someone they don't like. So get her to do you more favors.
3. Revenge Makeover
Yes, this might also sound childish again, but chances are that if you're in the friend zone, she doesn't find you at all physically attractive, it's time to change that. Hairstyle, attitude, the way you carry yourself, your mannerism, everything about you that you want to change literally, try to make it better and prove it on your own.
4. Express Your Feelings
For a while now, once you've done it all, chances are they're crazy for you and want you back into their lives like they used to be. So it's prime time for you to communicate how you feel and move from friendzone to boyfriend. Using this fail-proof formula at this point, you're 99 percent sure she's going to say yes, you've won, that's it. We're going to leave 1 percent open because you never know, she can laugh, but 99 percent of the chances are she won't.
And that's it for today's post, if you guys liked this post and found it informative, share this and comment down below and tell us what you think about it, guys that's a four-step system to go from friendzone to boyfriend.
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