We've got good news for you, we've cracked the code on the secret to getting a girl to fall in love with you to the point that she's gonna become your girlfriend. Don't worry if you're thinking - I don't even have a date, no girl even talks to me; that's all good, read this post because the skills you're gonna find here, you're not gonna find anywhere else.
1. Be Responsive
This is part of getting that spark or that chemistry going is to be actively engaging in conversation that you both can relate to keep things flowing. It's a back-and-forth kind of like ping pong, a little secret that we'll gonna give you that is useful is to have a set of 10 questions. Memorize them so that you can always deploy when you see the conversation starting to dwindle.
For example - i) Given the choice of anybody in the world, who would you want as a dinner date?
ii) Name three things that you think you and I have in common.
iii) So, I challenge you to something tell me your whole life story in under four minutes!
iv) Is there something you dream of doing for a long time, why haven't you done it?
Now, notice how all these questions are open-end, they're intriguing, they're fun and they were different. These are good questions that are good enough to give you a 5 to 10 minutes conversation that you can easily branch out of.
2. Your Grooming
Your grooming needs to be next-level, we're talking about your hair your nails, your scent, your style. If there is one day that you want all of these across the board to be on your a-game, it's today for your first date, you better go back and read as many tips we provide in this blog as possible or hopefully pay attention because here is when you bring out the big guns and here's a secret, you can be efficient, with this as guys you want to be as efficient as possible, you don't to be spending hours pampering yourself.
3. Share A Secret
The next secret to kill it on the first date is that you want to share a secret. Now, if you notice and you were paying attention, you notice that one of the questions that we have mentioned and you should memorize is that you can always ask is about their life story, this is intentional. Psychologists say that you can speed up the process of becoming more intimate with someone by having conversations that involve emotional personal information, pretty much in Layman's terms, this means that women love a guy that's man enough to be vulnerable with her, it just shows that you trust her and that you're just an honest straightforward type of guy.
4. Your Body Language And Seat Position
The last thing you want to do especially if she's a complete stranger, you know you're gonna be nervous. Do not sit face to face with each other. Instead, you always want to sit next to each other, ask for a booth or a circular table where you can sit side by side. This will allow you to take a breath or relax when there's no conversation, whereas you can look forward but you won't be looking at her which is gonna make you more nervous, this also is great to break the touch barrier when you're so close to somebody.
It's easy to rub shoulders or even touch your arm or her hand as you're joking around or you're maybe teasing her a little bit so it makes it much easier to kind of break that touch barrier which automatically breaks the tension and again puts you in the winning position.
5. Be Yourself
Just be yourself, remember on the first date, yes you're trying to impress her and you probably love this girl but never do it by being something that you're not. Women can sense fakeness and lies and even if you're good enough to lie and keep this up, your facade is gonna get tiring, you don't want her to fall in love with this imaginary person that you created just to try to impress her if you like this girl, she's only worth it if she likes you for who you are.
So, when you're having a conversation, don't lie, when she asks you questions, be who you are, speak your mind so you really can get to know each other if she falls in love with you as a dude, great, if she doesn't, it's her loss.
That's basically it for today's tips and those are 5 Secret Tips To Kill It On Your First Date. We hope you enjoyed it, if you did, don't forget to share and drop a comment down below.
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