Dating for dudes it's hard, dating for guys that are introverts is borderline impossible and if that's you, who we're talking to right now, you know exactly what we're talking about your social anxiety through the roof. You actually feel comfort and peace being home alone and talking to a new girl, you actually freeze up and overthink every single thing you're about to say to that girl.
So, you know what this means, have a seat brother, we got a lot of talks to do today, we're going to help you break out of this mold we're going to show you how to talk to that special someone even if you are an introvert.
1. Look At The Good That You Already Have
Being a natural introvert is beneficial in a lot of ways, a thing which you need to realize because it's going to boost your natural confidence, one of the best things about introverted people is that you pose less of a risk of actually appearing needy.
You see, neediness is the one single mistake that almost every single simp makes that turns every woman off, however, you a natural introvert that naturally just loves being alone isn't gonna need all that extra attention nor are you gonna act in a needy way because you don't want all that extra attention and that girls actually find hot.
2. Change Your Perspective
You gotta start acting like your time is valuable which is why you choose to spend some alone time and not that you spend alone time because you're an introvert or a loser or have no friends, that's the wrong mindset. To her, it's all the same and all she's gonna notice is that you like to keep to yourself.
Women love that because women love guys that are pure, more challenging guys that aren't willing to just jump all in into the deep end and give her all of your time and start simping all over her. When you start reserving time for yourself, you value your time because you're a natural introvert, it's actually a good thing.
3. Use Some Sort Of Barrier
Introverts like their personal space because it makes them feel safe, that's just how naturally introverts are built well. You can do the same thing in social interaction, women do this all the time, if you ever notice a woman when you start talking to her and it's the first time, she will do certain things to protect herself, add barriers whether that's put her textbooks in front or maybe put her purse in front of her.
When she does this, she's actually creating this imaginary barrier to make herself feel safe until you can lower her guard with your flirting skills which we've talked about it before. You can do the exact same thing, you can add a barrier that will make you feel safe we're going to give you a great example and one of the best barriers that you can add
is a pair of frames.
You see, frames you already know like a superpower, as soon as you throw them on, you feel better, you start feeling yourself, and you feel more attractive but more importantly, having that facial barrier is gonna make you feel more comfortable especially when you're engaging in eye contact.
4. Skip Past The Small Talk
As an introvert, the more you talk, the more drained you get and as an introvert, you're not actually breaking the ice. When you talk about the weather or the location or how her day was but instead, you're adding more layers of ice to your conversation because as an introvert, you find it difficult to continue to talk, it drains you so skip past speeding around the bush in small talk.
This is going to increase your chances of stumbling and instead be direct. We want you to have a goal in mind and go accomplish that goal - " Do you think she's cute? Do you want to take her on a date? Do you want her phone number? " Establish a goal then you proceed, you introduce yourself and then you execute on your goal.
5. Use Easeful Touch
You want to use what we call the easeful touch. It's not sexual, it's not aggressive, it's easeful, here's the thing, as an introvert, you like your personal bubble but you also need to understand that the only way to really start sparking is that sexual attraction in both her and you is by breaking that touch barrier. That's when you really start flirting and she'll feel it.
Now, the best way to do one of these useful touches is let's say, you're both sitting down you're already having a great time, the vibes are right you can lean in a little bit and you can touch her arm her hand or maybe her knee or if you're standing and you're really close together, lean into her just slightly and you can touch it with your shoulder or your arm, it's an instant sexual attraction that both of you are gonna feel and it's gonna be magnetic, both of you are gonna feel it and it's one of the best ways as an introvert to break that personal bubble you have but also create that attraction.
That's basically for today's tips and those are 5 tips to flirt with a girl as an introvert. If you guys like this video and found it informative, don't forget to share and drop us a comment down below.
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