It's already tough-talking to women for most guys, as it's talking to that girl you like, your crush, it's hard to do that stuff, but no more. You handsome guys will know how to talk to all of your crushes after today's tips and reduce your chances of actually being rejected.
1. Preparation
First of all, if you know, you easily find something that you can rely on, particularly in a conversation that you want to go in there with a game plan. If the butterflies get the best of you and your mind starts fogging, how you look is another crucial key to planning, which means that when you decide you're going to approach your crush that day, you're going to wear your best dress.
This is going to do two things for you:-
i) It's going to give you a great first impression when you first approach the girl.
ii) It's going to give you an instant juice of confidence and you know what, we all have that one outfit that we just love wearing that when you throw it on, you feel on top of the world.
2. Approach
Now this one takes your guts out of all the steps. This is the hardest one and the one that most guys can't get past. First, you want to set up your mindset; so an easy way that you can put things into perspective is to think most guys fear rejection nobody likes getting rejected but if you don't even try, it leaves you at a 0% chance of ever dating your crush. Approach her, get to know her, so that just at the bet you try, you're already winning.
Another tip is that if you're nervous or it's you're going to be your first time, and you like this girl, and you want to approach her; approach her normally when you two are alone, if you approach her with her friends, it's going to make it 10 times harder for you or if you approach with your friend, it's just going to make her feel insecure, on top of having her when she's alone.
So, if you see her in the cafeteria just go up to ask if you could sit next to her or maybe you see her at the party, just go up to her ask her how she thinks the party's doing and start the conversation.
3. Confidence
Talking to women is all about confidence, if you can get that you've got the keys, my man. Do you want to know what adds even more confidence? Wearing a watch and sunglasses you want to make sure you're on your a-game, wearing that watch that makes you look good, those sunglasses that make you look handsome that adds to your style and are all going to add to that overall image and make the first impression a memorable one that she will always remember, this also increases your chances of not being rejected.
4. Keeping The Conversation Going
You've got through the toughest part, but now you're here and wonder what you're doing and what you're not saying to not make a fool of yourself, a few tips - first keep it easy and light to introduce yourself, it doesn't have to be something extravagant or anything as basic as just saying hello or higher with some sexy pickup line.
You'd be surprised at how far that's going to get you especially if you throw in a smile. A second thing especially to get the conversation going is to start asking open-ended questions. For example, let's take the school approach, say you're at school and you see a girl, and don't go and ask something like - Did you take Miss Daisy's class? That's a Yes or No question and the conversation is dead.
Asking something more like - What did you think of Miss Daisy's class? or What did you think of that test? Again, this is going to get her talking which will then give you leads to keep that conversation going. Just a few things you want to avoid is, never talk about your ex or don't over compliment her, this will just make her feel weird; don't put her on a pedestal and please, don't tell her she reminds you of your mom.
5. Analyze The Conversation
You are in the discussion and the conversation is flowing, but now you need to start examining the conversation, look at the language of her body; what does it tell you? Is she as fond of it as you are? Or is it just odd that she is trying to get you to back away? If that's the case, all you have to do is tie it up and say it was a pleasure talking to you, and walk out before she refuses you, that way you've got to talk to your crush without being rejected. On the other hand, if the body language is right, she likes you.
6. Getting Her Number
You should wanna watch her body language and we won't go into much of the body language, we did a post on that and you can read it here - 6 Body Language Signs She Likes You
At the end of the day, if you see the positive vibes going around, you should go and get her number, get the digit if you see her that she's reciprocating and flirting back with you, she's gonna want to give you her phone number. If you are a little bit shy or don't know it fits just right, leave on a positive note, feel like you're on a high note leave and leave her wanting more, then what you can do with the power of social media, you could easily follow her on Instagram or Snapchat and you can start messaging her there.
That's it, guys, if you follow that fail-proof 6 step system, you can talk to any of your crushes and be confident, you're not going to make a fool out of yourself.
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