The epitome of a man is when he has the boss to get what he wants out of life including that girl he has his eyes on, but still, it feels pretty boss. When you're just sitting there minding your own business and the girls are the ones coming up to you to start the conversation, it's an amazing feeling. Today we're gonna make sure that all of you get to experiences at least once in your life, do these simple six steps, and have girls coming up to you.
1. Great Personality
You want to be that fun guy that when people are around you, they're usually laughing. If she sees you being that center of attention, she's gonna become curious about you, she's gonna want to know what draws people to you.
The best way to do this is just by treating others well, being a good guy, complimenting them, avoiding being negative, compliment their ideas, and also try offering a helping hand to those that are around you when they need help. That is gonna make people want to be around you making you seem like the center of attention.
2. Make Eye Contact
The title of this post did say you don't even have to say a word but it doesn't mean that you don't have to put in a little bit of work. Girls have the same nervousness and same insecurities, guys feel if not even worse or multiplied because it is standard for guys to do the approach to make it easier on them.
You want to give them at least a hint that you're interested in them, locking eyes is the loudest message that you can send to them that you want her to want to talk to her. Your goal is to try and meet her, gaze for at least one in two seconds and do it for a short moment and then look away, you don't want to do it for too long because then is just gonna be weird and uncomfortable.
3. Always Establish Your Space
Here's something super simple a guy can do, whether you're sitting down or standing up, you want to make sure you take the space that you need to feel comfortable. This is just gonna be seen as a guy that's more confident, keep in mind that women are generally more attracted to men that seem dominant.
When you sit down to the same thing, feel free to relax, take up the space that you need to feel comfortable. Of course, just keep in mind the people around; you don't want to be a douche bag.
4. Close Proximity
So, if there's a girl you like in class and she's sitting in the corner front of the room, don't sit in the back corner of the room. The same thing at work, when she takes her lunch break, you want to sit in the lunchroom at the same time she does. When you're at the coffee shop or at the cafeteria, sit in close proximity.
If you know she hangs out in certain places, go there with your friends, so you're always in close proximity if she always sees you and it makes it easy for her to actually come up and talk to you.
5. Be Detailed Oriented
Even if you haven't spoken to this girl, you want to be like a spy, you want to be able to pick up details that you can use to make her approach you, pick up a little subtle sign like the book she's reading, the music that she listens to, the things that she asked about in class, the clothing that she wears.
For example, if you're in college and find this chick having the same thing you have (let's say, limited-edition sneakers), you should decide to wear those sneakers the next day in order for her to notice that you have that limited edition too. Get her to notice you without saying a word or by sitting next to her, within seconds, a conversation will start, she may ask you from where you get them because the sneakers were kind of rare, and then you'll go on a whole conversation about sneakers; and the point is that you did absolutely nothing other than being detailed oriented.
6. Hold In A Bit Of Mystery
Don't be so easy to read, give them a mystery almost like a puzzle to be solved. This is what's gonna draw women to you to want to solve that puzzle and you can do this with your style, this is why women are attracted to the bad boys.
If you want to be that mysterious dude, you want to make sure that you're well-dressed but be avoid a lot of colors, another smart style moves whenever you can is to wear glasses, if you're outdoors, wear these bad boys because what this does is it creates a barrier between your eyes and their eyes and you're gonna feel more confident because you can look everybody in the eyes but since they can't actually see you, it creates that bit of mystery.
That's for today's tips and hope you enjoyed it and those are six super-simple steps that if you do, we promise you this girl will talk to you without you even have to say a word. If you guys liked this post and found that informative, don't forget to share and drop a comment down below.
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