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6 Ways To Go From Nice Guy to Bad Boy - Pillar Advice




No matter how much you hear girls say that they want a guy that will just treat her right, we all know deep down in our hearts that they'll always choose the bad boy. Girls love bad dudes, you guys are good guys at heart, you don't want to be some sort of tool or douchebag just to impress a girl.


However, there are small tricks and little changes that you can do to your personality and how you act that will instantly make you appear like a tough dude like a bad guy without being a douche bag. Today, we will show you these six tricks; if that sounds interesting, let's hop into it.




1. Take Pauses When Speaking


When you talk, use more pauses, don't be some sort of geeky little boy who just speeds talks, and rushes through everything they say. That's just seen as nervousness by others and bad boys, they don't get nervous they actually make others nervous. Take your time and take more pauses when you speak stare at people intently and pause when you need to notice " what this is doing to you right now versus what I was doing a few seconds ago ".


If you do it right, it'll make them listen or feel a bit uncomfortable this bit of uncomfort makes others especially woman feel like they're talking to a bad boy and they get nervous, a bad boy like you and therefore she thinks she's talking to some dangerous dude.



2. Stop Buying Expensive Brands


Stop dressing to please others. So many guys dressed intently to show others how much they spent or how much hype they have; stop buying your Supreme, your Gucci just so you can please others when you know damn well you don't even like how it fits or how it looks. You think that they think that you have money but here's the thing bad boys aren't intent on what others think.


For example, look at bad boys in history let's take James Dean or Clint Eastwood, do you see one single form of branding on them at all? No! Because they don't care about that, they just care that their basic t-shirts fit right so they look more muscular and they look like a bad one.



3. Talk Less


You want to talk less, bad boys just know how to use the fewest words possible to explain themselves. When you talk less, you just become more mysterious, you become less boring and more importantly, you give the appearance of being less need.



4. Don't Say "Yes" And "Sorry" Everytime


You need to remove two words from your vocabulary "yes" and "sorry", okay don't actually remove them, you're probably gonna have to use them when they're necessary. However, nice guys always say "yes" to everything and they apologize for everything; when you learn to say "no", it shows others that you valued your time, you put yourself first and you're just not giving away your time like it's some sort of charity case.


Now, people will want your time, it'll be like an asset that they can cherish, therefore, they'll respect you more for it saying "sorry" all the time when somebody bumps you or when you're late or just for every little thing is another defect that nice guys have because it just shows how unsure you are of yourself.



5. Don't Change, Be Yourself


Stop pretending and start being yourself. A lot of nice guys would change their personality to try to accommodate or be liked by whoever is in that room at that time. They'll act differently when they're with their friends than when they're with their family than when they're in front of an attractive woman. Bad boys on the other hand, just don't care about how you or anyone else feels about it and that authenticity is what attracts women like crazy.



6. Smile Less And Response Accordingly


Stop smiling and nodding all the time, you have to learn how to just be aloof, unfazed because nice guys out of nervousness what they will do is they will uncontrollably just start nodding and smiling when they're mid-conversation at everything the other person is saying. What you want is to appear more reserved, tougher, more intimidating and the easiest way to do this is to start smiling less, only laugh when you think that's something that was said was actually funny, other than that just listen intently and respond accordingly.




That's basically it for today's tips and those are six traits that you could start implementing right now that will take you from being a nice guy to a bad boy. If you like this post informative, don't forget to drop us a comment down below and share.

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