Do you understand how awkward it is for a girl to just start busting out laughing when you inch closer and closer and closer to her because you are feeling the vibes? You think she wants you to make out with her, she is laughing at the thought to ever kiss you because she sees you like her little brother.
You see, women are just naturally nicer than us guys, and out of that niceness there, you're gonna do a lot of things to not make you feel bad at us dudes to misinterpret as flirty. We don't ever want you guys to be in that situation, so here are six ways to know if a girl is flirting with you or just being nice.
1. She's Hovering
When women start hovering around, you better get excited because this means that she's interested in you and not just being a friend. This means that if she's always around you, always near your peripheral vision, always making any excuse to bump into each other, or even if you're not close, you catch her looking at you from afar.
She's hovering around you and she wants you to initiate conversation. However, if she's the bartender, sales associate, stripper, any other woman that is required to hover around you in order to upsell you, she does not have a thing for you, she's just trained to upsell you more stuff.
2. She's Jokes Around With You
She's gonna joke around with you; we know this is getting a little bit confusing but this is the life you opted for when you enter this post, most girls they're shy about 90% of them. If a girl is just loose and comfortable and joking around and laughing and even bumping into you maybe she just hits your arm a little bit, don't be dumb, she's just being friendly, if she's that comfortable she doesn't find you attractive.
However, on the left side, if she is close to your vicinity, you pick up there usually she's playful joking around and laughing and comfortable but when she's near you, she all of a sudden gets tongue-tied, starts laughing awkwardly, or blurts out stupid or weird things, she likes you and chances are you're making her nervous.
3. Do A Quick Test
A test that you can do to see whether she is just flirting or being friendly, pretend she's a man if you're unsure if this girl likes you or just being nice to you, you could pretend for half a second and think of this girl as a man.
If your interpretation of the interaction doesn't change at all, she's just being nice. However, if all of a sudden you feel uncomfortable, then chances are this girl is flirting with you, the point is that you don't have to force anything, you need to start trusting your gut a lot of times. We dudes we know the truth, our gut is telling us what's really going on, however, if we try to force it to see what we actually want.
4. She Compliments You
You see not all compliments are created equal, some are because she genuinely finds you attractive and other is just being nice. If a girl hits you with a compliment like " Wow you're so tall or you always dress well or how are you so knowledgeable, you're so strong " or anything along those lines, she finds you physically attractive.
However, if the girl is giving you basic compliments like " You are so nice or thank you for all the favors you do or wow you're like the only person I trust or how are you always on time for class or you're my best friend ", it's game over for you. She's just being ultra nice and you're just forcing yourself to think that she has some sort of sexual desire for you.
5. If She Rescheduled
Again, just like compliments, there are two types of rescheduling, if you ask a girl out and she says immediately - " Yes or if she tells you to know I can't on Friday, how about Sunday?", you're golden, this girl likes you.
However, if you text a girl on Thursday to hang out on Friday night at a party or whatever and she hits you back with - " Sorry, I just saw that I hate that I missed down, maybe next time ". Yes, she technically rescheduled with you and gave you some sort of hope of a potential future date, but in reality, she was just being nice, move on.
6. Some Women Are Naturally Flirty
Warning! Just stay completely away from these types of women, kind of like the strippers that we talked about before that have ulterior motives. You will find girls that just flirt for fun and they do it mainly because they love the attention and they love the idea of guys drooling over.
She has zero intention of actually giving you the time of day and it feels horrible for these guys and we don't want them to be you, don't give her the benefit of drooling over her, if you see this type of girl, run the other way.
That's basic for today's tips and we hope you enjoyed it. If you did, don't forget to share and drop us a comment down below.
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