When you start doing the right mental and behavioral habits that attractive men do daily that makes them irresistible to women and if you stick with us, we promise you by the end of this post, you'll know exactly know what to do daily as your daily habits so you my friend become irresistible.
1. Be Congruent
What that means is that you always have to make a habit to always align your thoughts, your words, and your action and you can do this daily with the small tasks. For example, you want to go get a Snickers bar, okay you think it, you say it and then you go get it.
That's exactly what being congruent is and if you do this as a habit with little everyday tasks, you're gonna be just as effective when you're with women whereas other weak men will think about wanting to kiss her but hesitate saying anything with their words because they're scared but they try to compensate with their actions and try to look confident. Now, you're gonna come across as creepy weird, and indecisive because you're not congruent.
2. Learn To Spoil Yourself
To treat yourself right every now and then, it's okay to go out and get yourself something you've always wanted something that you know is gonna make you feel good. As a little reward to yourself, buy the item that will most likely make you look good.
3. Only Ask Empowering Questions
This means that through your head, constantly run two types of questions we have empowering questions and disempowering question, the disempowering questions are what 99% of other dudes have almost daily like - " What if she doesn't like me if I go up to her she's gonna think I'm a weirdo ".
When you only ask yourself these type of questions, your mind is going to start searching for answers for them even if they're not real and that is the main difference of attractive men, they have the habit of only asking themselves empowering question - " What if that's my next girlfriend, I should go up to her, I can probably use her to teach me how to talk to more girls, what if that girl likes me as soon as she sees me ".
And it is that exact mindset that fear of missing out on your next girlfriend that causes attractive men to take action and that freezes with anxiety-like unattractive men.
4. Be Passionate
Women just love men that speak with passion because it's energetic, charismatic and it's magnetic. If you've ever been around somebody talking about something they love passionately, you just can't help to be drawn in and stop to listen to what they're saying because it's almost like it's contagious, like it draws you in.
Well if you learn how to speak about everything in the same way, that you do a passion of yours whether that's gaming or sports, you're gonna draw women closer to you and spark their interests.
5. Make People Around You Feel Good
This is just basic empathy and not ass-kiss that America already suffered from obesity and high cholesterol there is no need for you to be buttering them up. However, genuine sincere admiration is always a strong bond builder, so, when you meet a girl or talk to a girl, give her a truly genuine compliment, something that she's always gonna remembers you but don't hit her with the basic - " You're beautiful ".
Try something genuine like you're a great conversationalist - " I enjoyed my time with you, you have such a positive charisma, you always make my day, I always learned something new when we talk. This is giving her praise on a skill she has and not just her looks which is a hundred times more attractive.
6. Keep Your Eyes On Her
There's nothing more powerful than practicing strong eye contact daily. You could do this every day with little tasks whether you're talking to a bank teller whether you're talking to your cashier or at the gas station.
You want to use these daily interactions that are small and use the exercise to learn how to talk to people and look into their eyes, you're over here trying to get to know her but you're not actually looking at her so she's gonna either think that you're uninterested or you're shy both of which are unattractive.
7. Be Present
This is probably the hardest one because us as men it's so easy for us to start daydreaming and lose focus. However, in a speed dating study, women found men that are mindful and more self-aware to be more attractive than the rest of them and this is because mindful people live in the present.
They take their focus away from the anxiety and depression of wondering about the future and instead are here now listening and enjoy that just makes you emotionally balanced that makes you attractive.
That's basically it for today's tips and those are seven daily habits to put into practice to become a more attractive man. If you guys liked this post and found that informative, don't forget to share and drop us a comment down below.
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