You guys ever feel like this pit in your stomach every time you talk to a girl or when you see a pretty girl? It doesn't matter how much you want to go talk to her, it's almost as if your feet are planted on the ground and you just can't make yourself move or even worse when you're in front of a girl and then you freeze up because now you can't even be yourself because of how scared you are of her.
Yes, you're not alone, this has happened to many of us, a lot of men have probably experienced this at one point in their life. The men that have been able to get across from this is that they've learned certain tricks and things that you can do to minimize the nervousness that you feel when you approach a girl. Today we're going to show you the seven things that you can do to never get nervous in front of a girl.
1. You Are Good Enough
Now, this isn't some bull crap mommy motivation speech that we're giving you or some sixth-place trophy to make you feel better, no, this is actually true and you get nervous around girls in your mind and you don't think you're good enough, you're probably going into an interaction with the pretty girl thinking - "This girl's never gonna like me, I'm too ugly, I'm too poor, I'm too short".
Whatever, you're going into interactions with this mentality you do everything possible to overcompensate and protect yourself from looking more stupid or even ugly in front of her, which is why you end up being like a robot and freezing up over calculating everything and do you say in front of her.
You gotta understand that women aren't attracted to guys just on their physical, they're more so attracted on the emotional level, this is why your confidence and self-esteem are what's most important.
2. Stop Looking In The Wrong Places
If you go up to a girl and you either look away, like a shy little puppy or you look at her breast or you're just awkward with your eye contact and you give her the death stare in every scenario, this girl's gonna feel uncomfortable because you're looking in the wrong places, you need to start developing your eye contact.
For example, Let's assume you're the girl, I'm gonna look at you in the eyes but I won't keep my eyes directly on you like I'm a psychopath, I'm going to bounce my eyes from both of your eyes and I might go down to your nose or to your mouth or to your forehead a little bit; the point is I'm relaxing my eyesight on your face so you don't feel so awkward under my eye contact.
3. Stop Worrying About How Experienced You Are
Both with talking to girls or in bed thinking about your performance or how long you're gonna last is what makes you last less. If you ever get lucky, don't believe the hype, it's not just the motion of the ocean but it's how long the waves actually even last. So, you need to get that performance anxiety or experience anxiety out of your head because that's gonna mess with you everytime you talk to a girl.
4. You've Got To Get Comfortable
This whole bullcrap - " Oh, just be yourself ", never fully works, if you don't have practice and experience, you have to get comfortable in front of hot women. So, anytime you see a really 10 out of 10 hot girl, a girl that you see and you're just thinking - " Man, that girl is way out of my league ", we want you to take your sexy ass on over there and ask her directions to the nearest whatever library stores, starbucks, or wherever, if you know where it's at, we want you to ask her.
The point is that you need more exposure to these really hot women so you can feel more comfortable around them which is just going to make you less nervous when you actually want to start flirting.
5. Don't Get Too Invested
This right here is the hardest one to crack for most men but once you do, it's gonna be the most valuable one once you stop getting. So, invest in just that one girl you think will you be happily ever after with and realize that there really are plenty of fish on the sea, you're gonna stop putting so much pressure on her and even yourself to try to force and make something work with this girl.
What happens is when guys get too invested with one particular girl, the way they put it in their mind is it needs to work out with this girl, or else I'll never find somebody as perfect as her.
6. She Doesn't See Herself The Way You See Her
You got to understand that while you think this girl is the hottest thing ever and perfect in every way, that's not how she sees herself actually. A global study done by dove cosmetics found that 96 of women, 96 almost 100 percent of women don't consider themselves beautiful.
This is why women love makeup and face tone so much they're filled with insecurities and when you approach her, and think of this and know that she doesn't think she's the hottest thing ever. You're now going to be in the dominant position and at least mentally you're going to be more confident to be more relaxed in that situation and not feel so nervous.
7. Stop Sexualizing
This is the problem with you, watching so much porn and beating your meat every day,
every girl you look at you'll probably just see it as a piece of meat because when you see a hot girl, all you can look at is her boobs, her ass, which is hard not to but if that's all you see.
All you're gonna think about is betting her then your pipe's gonna get overly excited and it's gonna try to avoid you to do anything stupid to impede you from getting her to bed making you look like this nervous kid and it's his first time getting laid. If you do that, you're gonna mess it up, stop over-sexualizing women, and just talk to them like they are people.
That's basically it for today's tips and those are seven ways to stop getting nervous around girls. If you guys like this post and found it informative, don't forget to share and drop us a comment down below.
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